Comments on: Please Don’t Promise Me Forever

By: Carlos

Carlos — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 16:49:38 +0000

This was like a kick right now i’m really sad depressed because my girlfriend toll me to give us a time but she really want to be with me the fact is that she is seeing somebody else in i always crying because its soo hard any advice

By: Corey

Corey — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 17:22:30 +0000

So, I think this is very dumb. It’s not his/her attempt to be sincere and realistic; it seems like it is a cop-out. And honestly, how hard is it to remember you girlfriend or boyfriend’s birthday? I mean seriously, write it down or something. It honestly seems like whoever wrote this did not want to commit. “Don’t promise me forever?” We don’t know what the future holds, but that doesn’t mean we can’t commit to one another. I actually saw someone say that this book would help against divorce.The only way that would ever be true is that anyone who truly abides by the rubbish in this book would never be able to make a commitment of that magnitude in the first place.

That said, I laughed a lot at this. So ridiculous.

By: Marilyn

Marilyn — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 13:21:52 +0000

This was beautiful and timeless. We should all take this advice and learn to really love and understand each other. Thank you for sharing. Any chance we can get a pdf of it. I would like to share it with my friends at work.

By: Cory

Cory — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 06:39:06 +0000

Hayley, you’re the best girlfriend ever, always remember that. I’m so lucky to have you. I can’t wait to have you in my arms

xoxoxoxH

By: Fernando

Fernando — Sun, 29 May 2011 22:48:46 +0000

Well, people thinks that “needing” someone else to keep breathing is romantic. But I think that is just conformity and lack of self love. Instead, if two lovers that do not need to be together still want to be together, then it is a lot more meaningful.
Also, has nobody been in a family before? It is completely normal to forget dates and to fight. Also I would never put to shame someone I love in public, even if I know that person can take it, won’t say I never did it, but I learned from that how hurtful it is to be made fun by someone you love in front of others.
And to end my comment, to go up you need to be able to go down; the same way you need to be able to be independent to really share your life with someone else. So Rick is saying that he wants to be with the woman she is, not to create some kind of pitiful dependency between them and little by little forget how awesome they are by themselves.

Love is like that, and whoever thinks you need to become nothing without your loved one, is meant to suffer his(her) entire life.

By: Evan

Evan — Fri, 27 May 2011 10:05:51 +0000

Really Cool stuff dude. I greatly appreciate these are all the things to be considered in real life to avoid most of the divorces in the World

By: deokie

deokie — Tue, 17 May 2011 12:57:20 +0000

this guy has narcissistic personality disorder, don’t fall for it bittie!!!!

By: Sophia

Sophia — Sat, 14 May 2011 17:26:44 +0000

I fell in love with this.

By: Jonela

Jonela — Sat, 14 May 2011 14:49:39 +0000

Really, I have to thank you for sharing this and you sure are very lucky for having this book. I kinda have problems with my someone right now and it’s just amazing that I stumbled upon this. This really hit me. I know this little lines can make our relationship way way better. Im inlove with this book. Really.

By: glitterfiend

glitterfiend — Wed, 11 May 2011 03:45:38 +0000

I just got out of a relationship in which there was a lot of big talk about the future and forever and growing old together, and honestly I wish their hadn’t been. If you avoid making such lofty promises, it doesn’t mean you’re unstable or can’t commit. It just means you recognize the youth of the relationship and don’t want to stifle it. I really don’t think there’s anything terrible about that part. The one part that rubbed me the wrong way was the “don’t make me look foolish” part, but other than that I think yall need to lighten up! Jeez!